Hello and welcome. I am Tessa Fields, erotic hypnotist and certified hypnotherapist. There used to be a pretty canned and boring description of me on this page that turned out not to describe me at all. This year, 2011, I have resolved to make myself much more approachable and strip things down considerably so that you can know the me beyond the basics of my credentials. I know that for some of you, choosing someone to let inside your mind is a serious choice and I hope this provides a telling insight into the kind of person that I am.
If I was asked to use a simple word to describe me, it would be eclectic. I read most anything I can get my hands on, listen to most genres of music, and I have more hobbies and interests than I have time to indulge in. Dancing is and has always been a prime passion. Those with a keen ear may be able to pick up on my love of rhythm in all of my work. Even sensuality moves to a tempo for me. Seduction and erotic manipulation all seem to dance delicately under a maestro’s wand in my mind.
I like for all things in my life to have order and purpose. I am a self-professed neat freak with a place for everything and everything in its place. This does not, although, mean that I am a black and white thinker. I think life is one big, grey area and I often find myself frustrated dealing with people that cannot be open-minded and accept others just as they are or who they hope to be.
If I am being completely honest, I am little bitchy, a lot bossy, and I have a pretty nasty temper. I am also a bit like you. I am a devoted friend, an animal lover, sexual and intense, and if you get to know me, you will discover that I’m even a bit funny.
As some of you already know, I grew up in a very female dominant household. Women made the world go round and men seemed to be willing participants. I made a post a while back that told a bit more of my backstory … Dominant Woman
As a dominant woman in the realm of erotic hypnosis online, there are a few things to be understood. Just as a submissive should choose to serve a woman that understands his or her desires, I do not accept just anyone into my life to serve. Those that wish to serve in the realm of fantasy and role-play are welcome to do so, but to be collared by me is a privilege earned. I cannot be bought and demands on my time will probably merit absolutely nothing. Manners mean a great deal to me.
The Erotic Hypnotist:
I am an adventurer at heart and I’d hope that my subjects would be just as willing to try anything once. I do not consider myself a “catchall” hypnotist as of course I prefer some content over others, but I love that hypnosis can take one anywhere, even experiencing things with great realism under the safety of the controlled environment of trance. I use my acquired hypnotherapy skills to create effective trances and I am always toying with different styles of induction. I am not a follower. I am an artist. Like all art, I’m not for everybody. My approach tends to be subtle, but make no mistake in assuming it is any less effective. I’m like a slow poison, infecting you beyond the point of help before you can become aware that an antidote is needed. My favorite scenes in erotic hypnosis are cuckolding, tease & denial, love & addiction, chastity, and body worship.
I completed the last of my clinical hours for my certification in hypnotherapy last year. I take my work in hypnotherapy very seriously and do not like to blur the lines between erotic hypnosis and hypnotherapy.
My style of Hypnosis:
I have studied and practiced many models of hypnosis including, but not limited to Ericksonian, Kappasinian, NLP, ETF, etc. I tend to be drawn more towards Kappasinian hypnosis with elements of NLP(Neuro-Linguistic Programming) to enhance the process. When one asks the eternal question “What is hypnosis?”, it begs a different answer from almost anyone in the field. Based on my studies, I subscribe to the theory that when the hypnotist creates an overload of thought for her subject and then offers an escape into the subconscious, the subject takes the opportunity and open their mind up to the hypnotist.
I also believe that hypnosis is a mutually motivated event. Achieving a hypnotic state is easier for those subjects that are truly open to the experience and want to be hypnotized. If one takes on hypnosis as a challenge rather than a desire, they are typically much less suggestible to the process. It is important for the subject to trust in the hypnotist so that they may truly open up and lower the barriers into their subconscious mind.
I love math. I love code. I love photoshop. I love books. I am even a band geek. I’m quite happy to live in an era where geek is chic. After all, isn’t it hot to be dominated by sexy AND smart? *wink